Chicago, IL —Before 1969 divorce was no simple process in most jurisdictions. The laws were designed to make divorce difficult with the idea that couples could solve their differences and continue to responsibly raise their children. There had to be specific grounds and the most popular was “extreme cruelty”. There was abandonment and adultery, however they were much more difficult to prove. The petitioner had to prove that the marriage had not only failed but was dangerous! Without what we’d today call terroristic threats, a divorce would not be granted. The lawyers would all tell their clients, “Don’t worry it’s only a formality, just sign here or no divorce.” If you go to the court clerk’s office and pull random case files they’re all carbon copies of each other. “The Respondent has repeatedly pulled a handgun on Petitioner threatening to kill her” was written right at the top of nearly every petition! The respondent in most cases also...