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It’s Time To Adopt A Retired Cop.

I borrowed this photograph of a Hollywood casting director’s dream of a perfect actor to play a retired Chicago cop. I once met John Mahoney several years ago at a “Frasier” wrap party that Kelsey Grammer invited me to attend at Paramount Studios. It’s no coincidence that Mahoney is a Chicago boy.

I recently got involved in the defense of a criminal case involving a retired cop who will soon be 80 years old. This old warhorse had a venerable 35-year career with the Chicago Police Department with the awards and letters making anyone proud of his service. He had suffered a stroke several months before the event that brought him a charge under California law of, Brandishing a Firearm. It’s only a misdemeanor. Dishonor is the only real penalty that’s possible for this well liked oldster.

In a nutshell the old copper observed suspicious behavior and took some action. Nobody was hurt but the alleged “victim” has a lawyer and is really only looking to get rich with a lawsuit against my client. This case will boil down to the matter of intent. There was no intent to do harm, only good and I expect the pending court case to go in the old guy’s favor.

This has caused me to ask, where are the services for our retired cops? I can’t help but think that you can only be tossed against the concrete so many times by the bad guys to take on symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. How many times of getting shot, or shot at before a cop’s veneer begins to crack? How much anti-police hatred does it take to damage a true hero?

After you’ve had enough and put in your retirement papers, who’s there to gives a rat’s ass about your emotional well-being? We all know that too many cops can never adjust to retirement. Divorce, death of a spouse, drinking and loneliness plague more of these officers then anyone will ever admit. Oprah Winfrey has yet to make retired cops a CAUSE CELEB project. Somehow I doubt that she ever will.

I can’t begin to face the thought of the far higher than average suicide rate for retired cops. What this means is that every working copper in America needs to go out and adopt a retired cop. Check in on him or her, especially the ones without nearby families. Remember they were once young, brave, vital cops just like you.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Well said Paul!
Anonymous said…
What liberal-ass police department/town locked him up?

Do have a link to a newspaper article?
Anonymous said…
FYI - Chicago has a peer support program, which includes retiress and there are trained retired members. An active or retired member can request a visit, counseling (with trained psychologists) for free by calling Peer Support (its in the FOP book), and many other services.
Riverside County youngsters made the pinch. It would have been much worse for him in L.A.

Thank God it did not make the papers. That's yet another reason why I have not named the old boy.

I have to drive 2 1/2 hours each way to attend court with him. He is in fact innocent of any criminal act.
That program program but does exist but the retired guy has to ask first. That does not cut it because these boys are too proud to ask for help.

We need to be proactive and make shure they get real visits and know there is real help for them.

Each retired guy should have someone assigned to make regular visits. Just taking a retired guy to lunch once a month could make a difference.
Anonymous said…
there should be sometype of benefits that military veterans get for retired police officers. Many retired officers have seen just as much "combat" type stuff as many of the military. Now don't get me wrong I'm not comparing military combat to policing, but what I am saying if you work in say the Navy yard at Norfolk or San Diego for 25 years, you've probably seen lest action than most policeofficers.
Anonymous said…
I think adoption is a good idea. So who did you adopt?
I have adoped three of my pals from the job and I'm still searching for a really hot 20-something female recruit...
It is sad that many of the police are ostracized by many in the communities they are in. Especially after working so hard in a very difficult job. The same has been done to soldiers. Public service can definately be a thankless job.

(BTW, there ARE people who do appreciate the jobs done by the majority of you guys).
GRPOA said…
From a current Michigan cop-

I see the retiree's dieying of heart attacks, booze, and high blood pressure so soon after retirement....We just recently had a Lieutenant die within 2 years of retiring......It wears on cops, the years of the bullshit,blood, death, news media b.s.....etc....
Anonymous said…
I would love to find out how to adopt a retired cop. I have two college proffessors who are retired cops, but not every cop has that oppertunity. As for the ones who don't have nearby family, they just need a friend, just like anyone else?!

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